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Men at Home

Imagining Liberation in Colonial and Postcolonial India

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Pages: 240

Illustrations: 2 illustrations

Published: January 2025

In Men at Home, Gyanendra Pandey offers a detailed exploration of men’s comportment and conduct in the home and the implications of their ambiguous commitment to this critical part of their lives. The author draws on a wealth of archival materials—autobiographies, memoirs, fiction, and ethnographies—to situate Indian men firmly in the domestic world, underlining their dependence on the family and home. He investigates how men negotiate marriage, intimacy, and conjugality and focuses the effects of the humiliating and constant assertion of gender, caste, and class power in familial interactions. To uncover the nuances of these relationships, Pandey attends to the domestic commitments of upper-, middle-, and lower-class men across religion and caste. He considers issues of honor and shame, rights and responsibilities, citizenship and belonging through this exploration of how men across the subcontinent understand themselves in and beyond their domestic relationships. As much as it is a book about masculinity and conjugality, this is a book about Indian modernity, nationalism, and society as seen from the location of men in the home.

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“This deeply felt book unsettles many of our common contrasts, including those between public and private, men and women, home and the world. By looking at an unusual set of archival and biographical materials from different parts of northern and western India during the colonial period and after, Gyanendra Pandey opens up a new vista for the study of men at home in modernity.” - Arjun Appadurai, Professor Emeritus of Media, Culture, and Communication, New York University

“Gyanendra Pandey’s historical account of men’s domestic lives in India breaks a resounding silence on the subject of men in the home and gender more broadly in nationalist histories. This allows him to arrive at an understanding of contemporary Indian society that is particularly pointed. This pathbreaking book, written with ease and elegance, makes a significant intervention and is an important addition to the field of feminist studies.” - Rajeswari Sunder Rajan, author of The Scandal of the State: Women, Law, and Citizenship in Postcolonial India

"Men at Home by Gyanendra Pandey is a powerful, richly layered intervention in the study of masculinity, intimacy, and domesticity within the context of modern Indian society. With an acute sensitivity to historical and social complexity, Pandey interrogates the seemingly private sphere of the home to uncover its deep entanglement with public, political, and structural forces. In doing so, he reframes the home not as a feminine preserve, but as a space where male identities are negotiated, contested, and constantly reshaped." - Namrata, Kitaab

"Absorbing and intriguing. ... When a book stays with one long after the act of reading, with all that it makes one ask the self, with revelations that one can’t hide away from, that really makes for an unusual book." - Anuradha Kumar, American Kahani

"Through examining the contents of autobiographies of 'famous Men,' Pandey provides us with a register of occurrences and accidents in the domestic and personal lives of these men, which can help us to enrich our understanding of manliness, masculinity and the structure of power relations in the domestic spheres of life." - Atul Upadhyay, Doing Sociology

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Gyanendra Pandey is Arts and Sciences Distinguished Professor of History at Emory University and author of A History of Prejudice: Race, Caste, and Difference in India and the United States, Remembering Partition: Violence, Nationalism, and History in India, and The Construction of Communalism in Colonial North India, among other books.

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Dramatis Personae  ix
Prelude. Fragments of Family  1
I. Legacies
1. The Indian Modern  11
2. Homes Our Fathers Built  33
II. Practices
3. Duty  59
4. Discipline  85
5. Dignity  111
III. History in a Visceral Register
6. The Things Men Touched  135
7. The Nature of Men  153
Epilogue. Ym Ylimaf  169
Acknowledgments  179
Notes  183
Bibliography  205
Index  215

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Related Links Paper ISBN: 978-1-4780-3138-3 / Hardcover ISBN: 978-1-4780-2815-4 / eISBN: 978-1-4780-6037-6 / DOI: https://doi.org/10.1215/9781478060376